Tommy Brown

A common scenario that any guy would face in the dating game is when he meets a woman he wants to go out with, she would want to be ‘just friends’.

When you get the ‘let’s just be friends’ speech from the woman, it normally means one of the following two things. Either you did not generate enough attraction in her, or if you have made her attracted to you, she did not feel comfortable to be with you.

Building both attraction AND comfort is the biggest key to bridge from platonic to seduction. Ironic it may seem, but the skill of building attraction and comfort comes with BEING FRIENDS WITH WOMEN.

Making friends with women (especially those with the traits that you want) is easily the best way for you to improve your game because of the following reasons.

1. You will learn women behavior. No amount of reading will equip you with the knowledge of the woman psyche. Being around women would make you aware of the subtleties of women behavior.

2. You will become comfortable around women. If you’re not comfortable with the women that you want to attract, you’re not going to attract them. It’s that simple.

3. You will get to meet more women. If you are friends with an attractive woman, it is highly likely that she also hangs out with women who are as beautiful as her. You’ll get more chances to interact with attractive women.

To improve your game, go on and start making friends with the type of women you want to be with. Stop thinking about bedding them. Once you’ve sorted them out, they will all eat out of your hands.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide

Attractive women are asked out by men frequently, but the ideas are often the same. Drinks, dinners or movies. Here is your chance to stand out of the pack.

If you can bring them out to do other more interesting stuff, you are way ahead of the other guys who are competing with you. In this article, I am going to share with you some creative ideas for first dates. As an added bonus, some of these are even cheaper than dinners or drinks!

1. Go mother nature!

Women often have a soft spot for animals. You can make your first date super memorable by going on a ‘nature-based’ date, for example - go to the zoo, check out the aquarium, or simply take a slow boat trip on the river. Simpler ideas include going to the park for a jog or a picnic.

2. Sweat it out!

Sharing an experience in a physical activity will increase the bind between you and your date. Make sure that it’s an exciting activity. For example, bring her out dancing, go to the gym together for a spinning or step class, play a sport. Other ideas including flying a kite or checking out the local fair. 3. Touristy dates

Check out the local museums or popular landmarks in your own city. Or, make it a day trip and go to the neighbouring city within an hour from yours, and go for a road trip!

4. Her interests

Know what she likes and then take her on a date that matches that interest, for example, if she likes Balinese art, classic films or hatha yoga.

5. Current happenings

If there are any current events happening in your city, then bring her along. Check out the listings in your local newspapers and magazines.

The biggest watch-out for a first date is that the focus of the date should be the activity or place, and NOT you and your date. This way, you will take the pressure off the interaction, and your first date will be more successful. Good luck!

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide

When Ross Jeffries (the originator of Speed Seduction) released the book “How To Get The Woman You Desire Into Bed” back in 1992, there was an outcry among some of its readers.

Some of the seduction techniques were deemed to be unethical, and it was suggested to Jeffries that he exclude them in order to make the book more ‘acceptable’ by the general public.

However, Jeffries insisted that the book’s content remained intact. “I had serious moral reservations about putting (the seduction techniques) into the book,” he said. “However, fair and unfair are relative terms.”

So how to get the woman you desire into bed? You might be surprised that it all starts within you. The key to bed the woman you desire is to have what Ross Jeffries called a “Super Get Laid Attitude”.

Success with women often has less to do with your specific actions with women, but rather more to do with your self-confidence. If there is one thing that you could do to increase your confidence with women, it is to completely remove your neediness for acceptance by women.

To get the woman you desire into bed, first you will have to create rapport with her. One of the most powerful ways to create instant rapport with the woman you desire is via this hypnotic technique called ‘mirroring’. The easiest way to apply this technique is to match your desired woman’s breathing. Once you master this technique, continue mirroring her tone of voices and the gestures that she uses.

Once you successfully created rapport with the woman you desire, your next step is to get a date with her. Many pickup gurus recommend that you get her number first, and then wait for a few days, call her up and then ask for the date. According to Ross Jeffries, it is far more effective to ask for an ‘instant date’.

The key to make her agree to an ‘instant date’ is to make the date intriguing enough to compel her to say yes. The place of the date should be near where you met her. Don’t ever ask her to immediately go back to your place. It is possible that she wants to go back with you, but due to her fear of appearing to be too easy, she would refuse you outright.

Once you have built enough comfort with her, you could then invite her back to your place. Again, give her reasons to go back with you. When she is at your place, use this technique called ‘push-pull’ in order to get her into bed. For example, lean towards her as if you want to kiss her. Then, pull away. This would amplify the attraction that the woman has for you. Repeat this enough times in order to build the sexual tension and you will find her ready to go bed with you.

In conclusion, in order to get the woman you desire to bed, you first create a rapport with her. Then, go for an ‘instant date’ in order to build comfort on top of the attraction that she already has with you. Then, bring her home and use ‘push-pull’ techniques outlined above to seal the deal.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide

Everyone is talking about the “cougar” - that infamous older woman who knows how to turn on the sex appeal and snag a much younger man. This is not a new phenomenon as women like Mrs.

Robinson were well aware of the power of mature seduction in movies such as The Graduate. However, more and more men are learning the art of seducing older women. Just look at relationships like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore or Tim Robbins who is 12 years younger than his partner Susan Sarandon. With a few simple steps, men can also learn the power of mature seduction.

If you want to seduce an older woman, you need to be able to appreciate what this type of partner has to offer. Instead of focusing on her age or her wrinkles, think about how much life experience she has to share, not to mention sexual experience. Too many men believe that only younger women make a good catch. Nothing could be further from the truth. The art of mature seduction involves recognizing and appreciating the maturity of older women. You won’t find many 40 or 50 year old women running to the bathroom to discuss their date with a girlfriend. This can be quite a refreshing change for all the naive young men who still believe they have to find a young chick to be happy.

Another import aspect to mature seduction involves maintaining an air of class, sophistication and intelligence. Older women have probably suffered a lot of bad dates throughout their lifetime. Therefore, you need to turn up the charm even more when you are trying to seduce an older woman. “Cougars” aren’t interested in horny little gum-chewing boys who can’t maintain a decent conversation to save their life. They are looking for a gentleman who can discuss politics, world events and which type of wine will best accompany the dinner you are enjoying. The more intelligent and sophisticated you appear, the faster you will be able to take advantage of her sexual experience in the bedroom.

You should also avoid “parading” or boasting about your attributes or possessions when trying to seduce an older woman. Many women are becoming more powerful and climbing the corporate ladder these days. So you can bet an older woman will soon lose interest when you start bragging to her about your flashy new car or countless sexual exploits. She will notice your expensive Porsche or designer suit on her own; you don’t need to remind her of them. Instead, find a way to compliment an older woman about her own accomplishments. Masters of mature seduction know this is the key to winning over older women.

If you are a young guy who wants to seduce an older woman, take some tips from the pros. Learn to appreciate all the great qualities a mature woman who like old wine, offers you a potent taste of intelligence, class, and sophistication. Truly for the connoisseur who appreciates only the best in life.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide

Single women are wasting their time trying to look good in order to attract a lover.

A man will screw any female that is available; all she has to do is ask him. Some guys will even screw a man if they get horny enough. So instead of spending all that time in front of a mirror dolling yourself up, use that time thinking of ways to let a horny guy know that you are ready for a hot session in your bedroom. But when you meet that horny guy you must tell him that it’s not conversation or dinner that you want, but only hot loving. I am sure that if you follow my instructions you will have a variety of men in your bedroom, and in a short time you will have to replace a worn out mattress.

Deep down inside all women realize that a horny man will screw them whether they look good or not, but they refuse to accept that truth. Women like to think of themselves as being more important to a man than just a mans way of releasing his sexual passions. But the fact remains that a horny man will screw a woman even if she has never bathed in her life. Some of the bag ladies you see on the street will confirm that fact.

Attractive women are dated more often, they rarely are lonely, and they are always seen on their cell phones speaking to one of their many boyfriends. At the singles bars, the pretty women have guys all around them while fat or homely ladies sit sadly alone. Any observer would say that attractive women are in demand and have more fun. But is the only reason that men gravitate toward beautiful women because of sexual attraction? There is another reason behind it, and that is vanity. A mans self esteem is raised by going to bed, or even being seen with an attractive woman.

If a woman is not interested in becoming a trophy for some guy that likes to show her off, she can have a great time by screwing any guy she wants. Throw away your cosmetics and cancel your beauty parlor appointments, they wont help getting you laid. Horny men are waiting for a woman that is focused on having a good orgasm. They will quit their attractive and expensive girlfriend for lots of hot days and nights in your bedroom. A horny man that is being pleased will forget about his search for a trophy woman and become your steady lover. Don’t be shy, ask the first man that you see if he needs a good screw, and you will never be disappointed by his answer.

.About the Author:

I am single and retired.

How many times have you gathered up the courage to approach a beautiful woman in a bar, sat down beside her and then just completely froze? Yes, the memory of times like that may still bring a tear to your eye, but you need to move on.

There are surefire tips that will help you learn how to talk to a woman and build a rapport instantly with her.

If you want to master the art of how to talk to a woman, begin by discussing things women enjoy. Females absolutely love discussing relationship issues. In fact, they often spend endless hours on this topic with their girlfriends. Guys, you should learn from this. You are trying to pick up a woman, not hang out with the guys. By focusing in on topics such as relationships, you will be well on your way to building an instant rapport with members of the opposite sex.

Another way to build your rapport with a woman is to display a feminine charm. This doesn’t mean you should run out to purchase a pair of pantyhose or nail polish. It just means you should start to train yourself to pay attention to the small details that men don’t normally notice. Start to judge women in the same manner they have been judging men since the beginning of time. If you don’t believe my advice, keep in mind all the androgynous singers that have been extremely popular with women - men like Prince, David Bowie, or even the members of Duran Duran. These singers know how to appeal to a woman’s feminine side, while still maintaining their masculinity.

The next thing you need to do is show a woman that YOU are a great catch. Men are used to chasing women and treating them as the ‘main prize’. However, you guys need to learn to get her to chase you instead. Women are naturally attracted to men who can demonstrate higher value. When you want to know how to talk to a woman, just remember that you are reminding her why she should talk to you and not the other way around.

Women are used to guys desperately fighting for their attention so this will catch them off guard and have them questioning why you aren’t doing the same. Another way is to reveal that other women are already very interested in you. You would be surprised how well this tactic works. Women can be very territorial and they will want you all the more if they know other women already have their eyes set on you.

If you want to know how to talk to a woman and build an instant rapport, follow the guidelines we have talked about. Make sure to discuss topics such as relationships that will help to build an instant rapport and display a little feminine charm. Last but not least, demonstrate your high value so she will end up wanting to chase YOU. This combination will have you forming so many female relationships you will need to buy another little black book.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly -Dating Super Guide

The Internet is a good place to meet and attract women. According to a survey conducted by a major women’s magazine, over 80% of women in the United States have tried online dating.

If you are looking to hook up with the woman of your dreams, the Internet is a good place to go to. More and more women each day are going online to meet men themselves.

Hot women gets plenty of attention, online and offline. Similarly, they get bombarded with emails daily from men. Therefore, just like in the offline world, in order to get attention from women online, you have to stand out from the pack.

The process of seducing women online can be broken down into two simple steps - first, get your target to respond to you, and second, bridge from emails to a date.

Getting women to respond to you online

When emailing a woman, inevitably she would ask you for your photo. Here is how to almost guarantee a response from her. Take a picture with an amazing backdrop, or is taken when you’re in the middle of doing an exciting activity. Examples are pictures that you took when you were on an adventure - when you were skiing, roller blading, or jumping off a plane.

The key here is to imply that you live a healthy, active lifestyle. This would fire up her imagination that if she gets to be with you, she would be living the same fun and exhilarating life as you do.

From exchanging emails to going on a date

Here is where it matters the most. As a rule of thumb, you could ask the woman for a date when you have exchanged three to five emails to her. Anything less would make you sound desperate, and anything more would make the whole thing go stale.

When you ask for the date, don’t just say ‘let’s go for coffee’. Instead, say that you’re going to do your weekly rock climbing and ask her if she would like to tag along. Better still, go for the date which is related to the activity in the picture that you sent her.

One final point. Women who you meet online are there to meet men, so there is no double guessing her intentions. Therefore, the game is already staked in your favor. Just follow the two steps outlined above, you will be on your way to take your dating life to a new level.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide

Are you one of those men who start to sweat every time you even think of asking a girl out? Your hands start to shake; your voice cracks up and you start to lose control over all your mental capacities.

This is very a common problem among men, but it doesn’t have to be this way. I am going to show you three ways how to ask a girl out and not get rejected.

The Bad Boy Mask

One thing you can do is portray yourself as a genuine “bad boy”. There is a reason so many people claim, “Nice guys finish last”. It’s because women are attracted to the exact opposite type of man! So, throw away your conservative shirts and ties and put on a funky leather jacket instead. A few tattoos certainly won’t hurt, but being a bad boy also involves your attitude, not just your outward appearance. You need to convince women that they are in for a treat and should be ready to experience dangerous liaisons, and adventures. You’ll get ahead by approaching women and letting them know you will satisfy all their dark and deep desires.

Art of Framing

Another thing for all of you men who want to know how to ask a girl out is to practice the art of framing. No, I am not talking about putting up door frames or picture frames. This technique involves learning to pose questions in a way that makes a woman want you, and not the other way around. You end up defining the overall meaning of the interaction and have her buying into what you say. In other words, she will now “be in your frame”. For example, when she asks you if you are trying to pick her up, smile mischievously and respond, “Absolutely not, I don’t even know if we would make good friends”. She may be a little annoyed at first, but she will most likely also be intrigued and curious why you aren’t interested.

Letting the Woman Chase You

Tip number three involves something that will probably be very hard for many men to follow. You need to stop trying hard to win her over. Let her chase you for a change. Convince her that you have lots of available opportunities and she will have to measure up to your standards if she wants to get anywhere with you. Most women aren’t expecting this type of behaviour, so they don’t know how to react at first. Don’t appear overly interested when she starts a conversation. Just make sure not to insult her completely or you will end up with a drink poured over your head, rather than a date.

Men who know how to ask a girl out have already learned the basic rules: they portray themselves as exciting “bad boys”, they make women think they are unattainable so females want them even more and they don’t try hard to win women over. If you don’t think these rules work, try them out for yourself. You may be surprised with the positive results.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide

If you are reading these words, you are probably in the same position I was in a short while ago.You are interested in finding a Russian lady for marriage but are unsure as to how to go about it.

Maybe like me you are a cynical person, sceptical about what is said in the multitude of marriage agency websites. Well I have just returned home to the UK after having been a guest of the Mordinson family in Kharkov and I just cannot thank them enough for all their kindness, warmth of hospitality and their invaluable experience, which all contributed to my having a spectacularly successful trip.If you are serious about finding a special lady for marriage,I would recommend the Mordinson marriage agency service without hesitation. Their service is absolutely first class and I would imagine it would be extremely difficult, if not impossible, to rival . And I must assure you, my comments just reflect the high level of satisfaction that I have obtained through the services provided by the Mordinson agency, the total delight in through using their services having befriended the most perfect lady I could ever have hoped to have found in this life.

It all started when I was surfing the web. I came across the Mordinson website. The visually stunning photographs of all the ladies aroused my curiosity, as it would do any man. The whole site was so impressievly prepared, it struck me that this was a very professional business. Whilst they offer a full range of services, I knew that to pursue a meaningful relationship with one of the ladies there would be no alternative to meeting her in person. This is the only way to assess suitability and to establish if there is a real mutual attraction. There was one lady in particular whose photograph and profile particularly appealed to me. Having decided to take the risk of going to Kharkov, I wanted to go there as soon as possible.

What I soon found out, was that the few days I spent in Kharkov was so much more than just an exercise of meeting a lady to assess suitability for marriage.It was a genuinely relaxing, care free holiday,with a culturally enriching experience.I thoroughly enjoyed it.

I was met at the airport by Michael Mordinson. The warmth of his reception soon dispelled any feelings of nervousness I had, arriving in a foreign country with no knowledge of Russian.Throughout my stay, Michael was the perfect host, a true gentleman. He was exceptionally well mannered, always charming, attentive to my every wish and totally dedicated to assisting me .He worked tirelessly in showing me around the city and in escorting me to my meetings with the lady I had chosen to meet and in translating for me. In this role, he was absolutely indispensable.The fact he was constantly so respectful of me and of the lady I had befriended put me at complete ease and enabled me to totally relax and to enjoy my complete stay. Michael is a very intelligent and polite young man, bursting with energy and enthusiam for life .It was a true pleasure to have met him.

The apartment where I stayed was first rate, it offered every comfort and facility I needed to enjoy my stay. It is situated in a very central location and was an ideal base.

I was basically free to spend my time as I pleased. The Mordinson family were ready to assist in any way they could and they were constantly available to help and support me, which I found very reassuring.The flexibility meant that my stay was individually tailored to my precise requirements. I could have seen as many different ladies as I had wanted , in whatever setting of my choosing and for as long as I had preferred. As it turned out, I only met with one lady, a lady who is now a very special person in my life.The days I spent with her are amongst the happiest in my life. Before arriving in Kharkov, I had corresponded with this particular lady for over a month and I think we had established a mutual like and respect for each other.I had made up my mind that I only really wanted to spend my time with her.I half expected that in real life she would look very different from her glamorous photographs on the website but not at all , she was just as stunningly beautiful in person as I had imagined her to be from the website.

I had read that Russian ladies were intelligent, respectful, polite, feminine and I found all these qualities and more rolled up in Natalia. She is the most decent and well rounded person I have ever met, from a very loving and caring family .She is without doubt the most wonderful person I have ever had the pleasure of meeting in my entire life. We both want to build upon our friendship, with a view to marriage, and I would marry Natalia without hesitation. She has brought such happiness to my life after just a few days together, I know already that I love her.

As a gift from the Mordinson family, they presented each of us with an album of photographs. They invited us into their photographic studio and Maxim took several photographs of us together .I was totally amazed by the high quality of these photographs, they are visually stunning and I will always treasure them.They represent an outstanding memory of a truly momentus period of my life.Without the help of the Mordinson family none of this would have been possible, so I shall be eternally grateful to them .Although I have only been home for one week, I am already making arrangements to return to Kharkov as soon as I can. I miss Natalia so much, my life here feels so empty without her,but she has given real purpose to my life, for the first time I can really begin to believe that I will finally find true happiness in this life, with her as my wife.

So if you want a truly amazing, life changing experience, I would without hesitation recommend that you take up the services offered by the Mordinson marriage agency .Through them you really can meet that ideal woman, they have all the necessary knowledge and experience to assist .If you do genuinely want to meet a decent Russian lady for marriage , the Mordinson agency can help you reach this goal .If you choose not to take up their help and you remain lonely, you will only have yourself to blame. I took a lot of time carefully thinking about all the pros and cons before purchasing the service, but on reflection it has turned out to be the best decision of my life so far. I could not be happier than with the lady I have found .There really are no catches with this! The ladies are as stunningly attractive in real life as depicted on the website and the service offered by the Mordinson family in Kharkov is as professional as their website is prepared. I will fondly remember my times as a guest of the Mordinson family for as long as I live and I will never forget their help in finding Natalia, who is for me the most perfect woman of my dreams. I can never thank them enough.

.About the Author:

Mishael Mordinson is an owner of A Mordinson Introduction, family run elite introduction club based in Kharkov, Ukraine http://www.mordinson.com

If you are one of those lonely guys who wants to know how to get a girlfriend, don’t lose hope. We are going to provide you with some real world seduction tips.

Any man can end up with the beautiful woman of his dreams - he just needs to learn some techniques that will help him in the process.

When you want to learn how to get a girlfriend, the first thing you need to do is learn the art of the push/pull. You may not be familiar with this mind trick, but I guarantee you will happy once you learn more about it. This involves convincing a woman of something or making her want something, and then turning around and withdrawing the object of her desire.

If this doesn’t make sense, think of how badly you want a candy bar when you are on a diet or of sex when you have been celibate for long. You may not have even thought about eating one during a regular week, but the minute you are on a diet and are forbidden to have one, you want it all the more. The exact same principle can be applied to women.

There is another aspect of real world seduction that you need to know if you want to focus on how to get a girlfriend. You should prepare by learning the practice of cold reading. This normally involves new age practices such as reading tarot cards, tea leaves, palms or crystal balls.

Obviously, these aren’t practical when you want to meet a girl, but you can learn from the philosophies behind them. People are impressed when you take the time to learn about them, and women are no exception. Cold reading involves studying a woman for a while and picking up on her body language and some of the non-verbal clues to her personality.

For example, zero in on a woman who is standing with her arms folded across her chest and tell her you think she must be very guarded, but that she is probably also very happy to relax once in a while and show her unprotected side. Keep the observations fairly vague and be sure to include opposite traits as these are very common in most people. She will be impressed that you “know” her so well that may lead to an eventual relationship with her.

If you have always wanted to know how to get a girlfriend or practice the art of real world seduction, now is your chance. Learn the ingenious art of the push/pull theory where you convince women to want what they can’t have.

Bait them little by little like a donkey with a carrot dangling in front of his face, and eventually they will be lining up around the block to date you. Practice this in combination with the art of cold reading or convincing a woman you “know” her. Once you have mastered these two skills, you will be ready to give Don Juan a run for his money.

.About the Author:

James Lockwood is the author of the infamous Dating Superguide, the book which Derek Rake has called “the ultimate amoral guide to seduction”. Learn about how to get the woman you desire to bed using little-known seduction techniques. For a limited time, he is giving away the $17.99 book for free. Click on this link to go to the download page directly - Dating Super Guide